Testimonials
“Couple prayer has made what was
a good, strong marriage into a great, awesome one!”
“Our praying together has furthered our communication skills,
our discernment of what God wants of us, and enhanced even the
pleasure and passion of our sexual union!”
“Praying together has helped to make the essence of our
Sacramental union more discernable to anyone with the ears to hear
and the eyes to see.”
“We found that praying together as a couple allows God to
show us the path less traveled, rather than the one we may prefer
to continue on. At first, I was hesitant to share my private prayer
life with my wife. I thought that her relationship with God, especially
the Holy Spirit, was far better than my own relationship with God.
But after opening myself up more and more to praying together with
her as a couple, I realized that it wasn’t about how mature
I was in my spiritual life compared to where she was in her spiritual
life. Rather, the relevant comparison is where we, as a couple,
are today, compared to where we were last week, last month, or
when we hesitantly took, our first, tentative baby-steps to share
our private prayer life with each other, entered into conversation
with God, as a couple, and listened to what He wanted to tell us.”
“For a religious celibate who
has heard many confessions, the privilege of listening to married
couples share examples of their lived experiences of individual
prayer, and especially of praying together as a couple, was awesome
and blew me away! I had no idea ordinary married couples, balancing
responsibilities of family, job, church ministry, etc., were so
spiritual in living their Sacrament!”
“After more than a year of seeking couple prayer, we finally
found, on our Retorno Weekend, the “pearl of great price” we
had long been seeking.”
“Marriage Retorno revealed to us hidden treasures in our
Sacrament of Matrimony. One treasure was the gift of couple prayer
in which we heard God speak to us as a couple through the Scriptures.
The difference in our lives has been wonderful. Another treasure
was the gift of discernment of God’s will for us as a couple.
To be able to see clearly where and when we are called to serve
lifted a great burden from us. Before, we tried to do it all and
we were burning out fast. Now, we have a way to decide with peace
the priority of the many demands life asks of us. For us, Marriage
Retorno was experiencing the joy on the “road to Emmaus.” We
are forever grateful.”
“The changes in our own relationship,
and our growing relationship and communion with the Almighty, as
the result of our Retorno Weekend, have had rippling effects on
our children, grandchildren, extended family, neighbors, Parish
community, and even on perfect strangers that Providence placed
in, or along, our paths. Our lives have been forever changed. Praise
and glory be to God!”
“On our Retorno Weekend, we received much more than the
gift of praying together as a couple. We also received the gift
of discerning priorities the Lord intended for us as a couple,
in lieu of our own agenda-dictated “To Do” lists. The
awe we experienced listening to God speak to each of us, through
the lips of the other, is beyond our ability to express in words!”
“Our
Retorno Weekend, unlike the emotionally-draining, roller-coaster
ride we experienced on our Marriage Encounter Weekend, was
like drifting quietly and peacefully in a canoe on a mirror-like
lake at sun rise.”
Turning
To God As A Couple
A testimonial
by: Phil and Dana Wright